“All those years of darkness can make a person blind.
But now I can see…. “
― Jennifer Hudson – I Am Changing
Lately some things that captured my attention this month really made me think a lot especially when it had to do with things I never really paid attention to but never thought it would reach the point where it would affect me. The idea of how people perceive you in Second life is and should not be something to keep somebody awake at night yet sometimes it does makes you wonder why.
Recently it has come to my attention that I, come across to some of my friends I did asked after as a very prim and proper person and to others, quiet and not very talkative. To make matter worse, the ones that don’t even know me painted me as snobby, cocky,uptight and with an air of feeling better than others. Several descriptions that were far from who i was, even when I admit that I tend to be quiet in local places and that is how i am normally. I guess this did allows people to assume and paint their own picture of the person i was in second life.
I realized that unless you don’t behave the same way as the person you want to have a friendship with, many tends to brand you the outcast without actually take the time to see if the first impression was the correct one.
Now the major question is; what would you do?
Change your personality to become friends or seek people more open to accept you the way you are?
Just a reminder: Knowing somebody take time, same as building a true friendship.
I hope you enjoy my post.
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